The weather has been so absolutely gorgeous this week! And alas! I've been mostly stuck inside working for 10 hours a day. Gotta pay the billz. Now it's a long weekend (4 days for me!) and I'm so looking forward to doing whatever the heck I want. Brave projects, friends, travels, relaxing. The options are endless!
Do you guys have any big plans for the long weekend?
I'm sure you guys are sick of my black target cardigan. I wear it pretty much every day. I just don't like being cold at all, and it's such a perfect weight for spring (though I'm counting right now as summer because we get so few months of summer as it is). I finally got to wear my handsewn skirt though! I can't wear it with tights because it's not lined so the fabric clings and gets scrunched into my crotch as I walk (super attractive, I know). Yay for bare legs and summertime!
cardigan/target :: scarf/mom's hand me down :: top/forever 21
skirt/handmade :: shoes/minnetonka
Recently I started noticing something interesting in the blogosphere, twittersphere, and various other internet places. There seems to be some sort of annoyance or discomfort in regards to bloggers getting sent items courtesy of some brands, the most discussed being ModCloth. As I'm sure you guys know, I'm one of those bloggers who does receive items courtesy of ModCloth. There are a lot of different thoughts out there pertaining to the issue of receiving items courtesy of a brand or store. Some people have mentioned that they feel like some blogs are becoming just a big advertisement for ModCloth. I could definitely see how that sentiment could be legitimate. I think it's important, for me at least, to post outfits that I would wear regardless of which items are sponsored. When I get dressed in the morning I just put on whatever I want, not thinking about where each item is from. If someone starts changing their style to conform to the brand they being sponsored by, I feel like that's a little questionable, but none of the people that I know who are receiving items have changed their style at all!
I've never had a problem with bloggers wearing "courtesy of" items, and now that I'm one of those bloggers, I still don't have a problem with it, though I do understand there's a level of sensitivity and tact that must be exercised.
I think what readers and/or bloggers who aren't sponsored need to understand (as unglamorous it is to talk "business") is that sponsorships must be mutually beneficial to both parties to at least some extent. Why is a company going to sponsor a blog, or any publication, if that publication doesn't have enough traffic to lead people to the company's site? Sponsors are trying to make a living too. I understand people's desire to have up and coming blogs feature courtesy items as well, but the fact of the matter is, there has to be enough traffic for it to benefit the business. I suppose this could sound cutthroat or partial to a certain "clique" of bloggers, but I would urge you guys to not think of it that way. All of the bloggers I know who get courtesy items all work extremely hard on their blogs, and they are all amazingly genuine, wonderful people. I, for one, definitely do not see myself as part of any sort of clique. I love all you guys! Blogging isn't an exclusive thing, it's totally democratic and that's why I love it.
I know this is kind of a touchy subject, simply because different people have different perspectives and viewpoints. What do you guys think of the issue? If you want to ask me questions on the subject, I'll respond in the comments!
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Big whoop dee do about modcloth and sponsorship. Do what you want and look good doing it(which you are)!
I'm your average joe, umm jane?, casual blog reader and I really don't pay attention to "courtesy of" at all. It honestly doesn't bug me or annoy me or whatever. When I see an outfit and like something, I'll scroll down and see where its from. If it just happens to be a "courtesy of", well cool now I know where its from. It just doesn't get to me and I don't understand how some people can raise their pitchforks and torches to something that's not really a big deal. Sorry =/
I think part of the problem that people have with bloggers receiving and wearing courtesy items (esp. from Modcloth) is that, regardless of whether or not it affects their personal style (which, how could it? everyone loves Modcloth!), it kind of defeats the purpose (or, what i consider the purpose) of the blogging world, which is to make fashion more accessible to the general public and encourage people to use what already have to put an outfit together. It's easy to make an outfit out of an adorable little dress, so there is no real creativity or personal choice required for accepting a gift and slapping on some sandals. That said, I don't think it's wrong. I just think it is different, and changes the blogger and the blog. I used to be a huge fan of Jessica's blog (WIW), but when she started focusing more on the blog-as-business and less on infusing her outfits with her personality, it showed. And that's when it becomes a problem. Also, I'm just jealous, because I want everything that Modcloth's got! :) Just my opinion! I'm interested to hear what other people think about this.
I absolutely love your blog! Not only do you have wonderfully creative outfits, you have amazing insight and really challenge us readers to comment and participate in the blog-world. :) My humble take on courtesy-of items? It's pretty cool, but only if the sponser has some sort of knowledge about the blogger's personal style. Otherwise I think it shows that the blogger just got free clothes and is trying to please their sponser by wearing them. If my little blog got enought traffic to warrant sponsership, but a sponser sent me something completely untrue to my style and thoughts on fashion, it just wouldn't feel very right.
I love the skirt!
I totally get what you're saying, and let me start off by saying I could care less if someone has sponsors or not. If it's something they would purchase anyway, who cares?
But, I do agree a little with Caitlin. I also used to be a big fan of Jessica's blog, but lately it seems her outfits are very "C/O" heavy. Not that there is anything wrong with that. It just seems like a lack of creativity. Which it might not be, but it seems that way to me. I try to not pay attention to where someone bought/got their outfit, but when you see a list of clothes that all say "courtesy of," it makes you wonder how much of that outfit is their style and how much is because it's free.
I think you have a very good balance in your outfits. Everything you wear fits your style, and there are plenty of bloggers like you who receive clothing from their sponsors, but still show their own style.
I've been blogging for over a year and I think the "clique" mentally you're talking about is referring to many groups of bloggers (such as the Delightful Dozen) who are all sponsored, who pretty much all link to each other, etc, etc. But that's how it works. You guys all know each other and you're all friends. It's not your fault that you're all sponsored and immensely popular.
My only concern (or problem, whatever) with places like Modcloth, is that they feature bloggers quite often on their site, but they seem to only feature bloggers they sponsor. There are plenty of other fabulous blogs out there where the writers are not sponsored, but they don't get the attention they deserve. But, again, that being said, why would an online store feature a blogger they don't sponsor? They're not going to get anything out of it. So I guess I can see both sides of the sword.
I blog because it's fun for me. If I ever get sponsors (or more followers) that's fine. And if I don't, that's fine too. I'm not going to quit my day job. As easily as bloggers get sponsors, they can also leave.
:) Suze
Even though you are a ModCloth sponsored blog, the tone of your blog hasn't change. I don't feel like I'm reading a ModCloth ad. I see your items as something you would've purchased anyway. There are some blogs, however, that each piece of their outfit is "c/o" somebody and not their own purchase. To me, that ruins the authenticity of the blog or why I went their in the first place — to see how a normal girl works her closet the best way she can. Thanks for staying true to you!
Also, if you wore a slip or half slip with your skirt and tights, you wouldn't have to deal with the crotch bunching.
I love your outfit today! The moccasins and the print on the skirt is gorgeous!
You make some very valid points about bloggers and sponsors, and I like the way you always include your honest opinions on things.
-Juliette WhereForArtThouRomeo
I like how you tactfully touched upon a subject that's a rising discussion within the interestingly new field of blogging. I think it's because blogging is such a relatively new medium that the proper etiquette, so to speak, hasn't been completely cleared yet. It's not such a black and white issue that it's easy to take one side or the other, either.
When it comes to the "big time" blogs who have sponsorships and have "courtesy of" items featured, I'm not incredibly bothered by it. The way I see it, blogging works like a personal business, only it's unique in that it can be melded to your needs and audience the way you want it to be. Granted, still keeping the integrity of blogging-- which I think you described quite well-- is important.
I actually wanted to know the basic do's and don'ts of blogging sponsorships and such. I see myself as relatively new to the blogging world, so when I was approached by a few people asking me if I could review and/or feature their products on my site, I wasn't sure what to do. Insofar I haven't responded to any, not only because I didn't want to cause any missteps, but because I felt like some of these potential sponsors didn't "fit" my blogging style. Blabbing aside, I'm a little confused on what's the "proper thing to do."
Sorry for typing so much, but this really is an interesting discussion. Thanks for opening up this can of worms!
Toast with Charmalade
I COMPLETELY agree with Caitlin. same thing about What I Wore. I used to follow it on Bloglovin but then I started noticing that almost every item she was was "courtesy of" different places. I stopped feeling like i could relate. I want to read style blogs of people who think like me, who dress with items that are thrifted or inexpensive. I don't want to feel like I need to go shop at modcloth or Loft to create a look that someone's wearing. I understand sponsorship and honestly if I could make money blogging and quit my 40 hour a week job and do it full time, I would in a heartbeat! But I would not wear clothes just to get paid for sponsorship. and I am also jealous because I want free modcloth stuff (altho their quality is often dissapointing). I don't think you are doing anything wrong and you are trying to save up for your trip!
ALSO, I noticed a few of the blogs I love to read make posts that are solely to promote a brand. that i dont really enjoy since i get excited when i see a new post in bloglovin then realize it's just an ad pretty much. ok that's my 2 cents (more like 2 dollars)
First, a slip or skirt slip will fix the bunching problem. It works like a charm!
There are definitely certain blogs that do the C/o thing better than others. I never feel like your blog posts are influenced by your sponsors because your style shines through so well no matter what you're wearing.
I think a lot of the backlash is jealously. I have to admit that at first I was a little annoyed by all the c/o modcloth items people were receiving, but I quickly identified the feeling as jealously and moved on. Companies look for the places their products are going to be most scene... it's simple marketing. And while I think people understand that at some level, they can't get past the why not me train of thought.
I agree with several other people that the only time I feel like this becomes a problem is when you start to see whole outfits that are c/o one particular company or when you start to see a distinct change in style choices. I don't agree fully with the criticism of Jessica's blog because I still see her style in the things she styles every day.
I think this is a great discussion to be had because it's important to talk about these things instead of people stewing on their opinions. I'm interested to see what others have to say.
I love what you guys' thoughts are so far! I definitely get the frustration with seeing c/o items in every post and how it changes the focus of a blog that was once devoted to making one's own closet work by remixing/thrifting etc. I do agree that sometimes sponsored items can get overwhelming. It's a delicate balance for sure, especially for bloggers who are more focused on a thriftier sense of style.
The only thing that bothers me about the amount of modcloth sponsorship in blogs I read is that the shipping to Ireland is sooooo expensive I can't buy the beautiful clothes I see!
So I guess it does feel like a group I can't be part of...but it would be ridiculous to take that feeling and nothing else from the world of blogging..
Your blog and others is so full of inspiration and personal style, constantly reminding me of the fun that can be had with what lies in that pile of clothes at the end of your bed...umm I mean neat organized closet!
I admire the delightful dozen so much for all the hard work that goes into the blogs, you guys deserve all the freebies/sponsorship you get!
Aoife
I've felt a twinge of good-humored envy here and there over your freebee stuff - but never have I thought your use of it to be too much! I admire how you work it into the hand-me-down, vintage, thrifted, and brand name clothes you already own. I am ever in awe of how you wear what you want to, without question or apology, expressing your personality so hugely .. you make dressing a real art! (And I find you and this space so much more relatable than, say, an all-designer, I-have-millions-of-dollars type of fashion blog.)
I think you're doing a brilliant job, and I think that the offer of free stuff by brand names proves that. Besides, don't you have a say in whether or not you accept the gift? I mean, you wouldn't take something you didn't already like, right - so it's not like you are changing who you are or how you dress based on what they're giving you. It is obvious that you have strong morals in the wardrobe world, such as not compromising yourself in terms of what you wear and creating your own style, not buying someone else's.
Oh, what a super long comment! To sum up - keep up the wonderful work! :)
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I do agree with you, and most of the people who have commented, actually! I have no problem if a blog is sponsored by modcloth or any other brand, and I don't mind if they feature c/o items.
I'm also really glad that everyone commenting is being so courteous regarding this hot-button issue. There's nothing I dislike more than immature and hurtful comments about someone else's blog.
I agree with Caitlin, and all those who have echoed her sentiments (I single her out because she was the early bird in this discussion) but I have some issues to add from my own viewpoint. Firstly, I get annoyed when a blogger uses the statement "I'm a real girl with a real budget!" but then lists something c/o of in her outfit deets. I have no doubt that that woman deals with a budget for the rest of the things in her life, but to state that while wearing free goodies seems quite contradictory to me. Also, I have a chip on my shoulder about Modcloth, which I've admitted to a few times, and am working on getting over. Coming from a small business, it's very frustrating to pay for an ad on a blog, only to have that blog feature something from MC all the time,(I use 'all the time' loosely since the various blogs I read all feature items both more often and more sporadically than others.) thus not getting any exposure. I've done a giveaway (with you! haha) that was quite successful, but unfortunately being that all my items are handmade, and not only take awhile to make -from initial design to finished product- but also the actual materials used are more expensive than someone who buys in bulk, that it's not fiscally beneficial to me to giveaway my products all the time.
I definitely respect what Susan has built her company into, but as a former small business, working out of her dorm room, a part of me wishes she could take into account the little guys who are also looking to the blogosphere to get their name/product out. But I also understand this isn't the girl scouts, and she has a business to run. I would go as far as to say that the company's main demographic exists in blogland, so it makes sense for her to send the popular bloggers free items to increase traffic. Doesn't make it any smaller of a horse pill to swallow.
In a nut shell: It irks me when people claim to be on a budget, when receiving free items all the time, and it's quite frustrating coming from a small business standpoint. Plus, like others have stated-I can't personally relate to those ladies anymore. I think it's great that you've started the convo, and I hope the rest of the commentators continue to remain polite and discuss this like the civilized ladies we are.
I don't mind when the c/o is relevant to the blog but when your "courtesy of" thing is orbit gum...that to me feels like a step too far.
I don't have a real problem with the "courtesy of" clothing, it's just kind of awkward because people in real life don't really get free stuff and can't relate to this. It's just hard to keep up with when people are being thrown free clothes and the rest of us are trying to scrounge together enough money to buy our own clothes. I've never talked about this subject until this comment I'm leaving on your blog, so I'm still thinking through things, but my first initial reaction is kind of like "oh...they great free stuff. of course they do." But I know a lot of hard work goes into these blogs so why shouldn't that be repaid? So it's like a constant cycle in my mind with no resolution.
You know what's funny? Most of the people complaining or looking down on those bloggers getting "courtesy of" items would be singing a different tune if they were the ones getting free shit. Real talk.
I don't get frustrated when bloggers have c/o items, it's just something I wonder about. The blogs I follow are all by people with styles I love so I do pay attention to where they buy their clothes because you all are stylish but also REAL people with real budgets. When I start to see c/o items, I just wonder where it will go from there or if the blog will start to change, however unintentionally.
I also notice that WIW has gotten to a point that most outfits consist of c/o items. That's great for her, it means her site is popular and that's wonderful! However, it's sort of changed the blog and changed her ability to relate to the everyday girl on a budget. Same with rumi of fashiontoast...it seems like every post is simply her in the street or field with a new free item to advertise. She has reached a point where I can't relate to her. :/
What I'm trying to say is I notice the increase of c/o items and I just wonder if the blog will change because of all these free gifts because I've seen it happen to other blogs.
I really like your blog and I wouldn't want it to be effected by c/o items if that makes sense, same with the other blogs I follow. You seem like you have the right mindset about this though about staying genuine.
Wow, people really get heated about this. I agree with some many of these responses. I think a lot of this stems from jealousy, like people have pointed out. A lot of bloggers feel they work just as hard on their blogs too.
The only thing, for me, is I don't like seeing bloggers posting items that I normally couldn't afford. But I don't read those blogs. I think it is simply a matter of choosing what you want to look at. I can afford clothing from Modcloth, but I can't afford clothing from Coach, so I don't look at blogs where girls are wearing designer items.
It is such a big thing right now...I personally hope it just dies soon.
I never expected people would want to send me things and now that they do, I certainly am not turning them down! To me, I feel flattered and I don't see how it hurts anyone.
I'd also like to state that everyone gets into blogging for different reasons. Everyone has their own idea of what blogs should be and what bloggers should be, but ultimately we shouldn't try to force our personal doctrine on others. I certainly know what I want my blog to be and I would never ask someone else to adhere to my personal policies and practices. Why can't we just respect that other people are going to behave, believe, and blog differently than ourselves? I don't think anyone has the right to tell me how or what I should blog on!
And ultimately: everyone can just stop reading blogs that bug them. You don't have to change blogs you don't like; just don't visit them!
Oh! And I do think my blog has changed some since my sponsorship (although I still remix, people just don't seem to notice it--my Flickr has every item that is remixed labeled and most outfits are at least 50% or more remixed)...but I've changed. I worked as a cashier and I lived where there was good thrifting. I frankkly hate the thrifting in WA, I continually go and don't find anything I like. And I work freelance for a couple of websites online and make more than I ever did as a cashier. I'd hate for people to like me to remain as I was when I was 20 and working as a cashier, because I don't want to be 20 and a cashier forever! :)
I really like change...
Honestly, I pretty much agree with you on the whole sponsorship debate. As long as original style is retained, I don't think it really matters if somebodies clothes have been gifted to them from some third party. I do rather stop reading blogs that become 'too sponsored' (day after day of entire gifted outfits) as I feel they become a little bit more of an advertisement than a reality fashion blog... however, that said, I still don't feel that it's a negative thing that they are choosing to do. It's a part of what their blog becomes.
Aw, I love the pattern of your skirt! Great job!
Concerning the modcloth issue, I don't really understand why people feel annoyed by modcloth sponsored blogs. nowadays everything is based on marketing strategies and there are lots of things in the media that are much more annoying.
I'd say this is matter of jealousy?! I mean which fashion blogger wouldn't want to get pretty pieces "for free"? I don't take such a narrow view on it.
First off, thank you for addressing this "issue", Elizabeth. You are one of the first c/o of bloggers to actually discuss the current controversy. I think the reason why c/o frustrates many girls is it turns the one predominantly female environment that was NOT catty into a catty environment. Suddenly, girls are jealous that they don't get free dresses sent to them. I understand your idea of the business ethics of it all, but the point is, you and every other c/o blogger started your blogs never even dreaming of sponsorship and now you're getting a new item every week. So I guess a lot of the nonsponsored blogs wonder just what they're doing wrong that they don't get a dress named after them for free. Yes, you are very true to your own sense of style still, but some other bloggers have completely drifted from what I loved about them. I could point fingers, but I don't want to turn this into a hateathon, we don't need to elevate the tension enough even more, but there are a few blogs I've considered unfollowing because they're no longer about thrifting and remixing, but how they styled another c/o item. They have completely lost their purpose and turned into essentially modcloth spam. All in all, I find MC to be a negative force, it creates jealousy and it definitely detracts from the original purpose of many blogs.
Yeah, Tess, I can definitely understand that. I definitely didn't ever expect to be offered free items, and I never really even considered being sponsored until I decided to go on the Winnebago trip. For me, sponsorships are a way to be able to support myself while I'm on the road and not able to make money at a 9-5.
I know what you mean, though, about people thinking maybe that they are doing something wrong because they aren't featured or given courtesy items, but I think that is the wrong way to think about blogging. I've been blogging since 2008 and for me, it was a long long process of making my blog better and learning how to take better photographs. I mean, if you look back on my early posts, they weren't anything to write home about.
I think maybe the phenomenon of celebrity bloggers who have thousand and thousands of followers make newer bloggers wonder how that happened and how they can get there, but I don't think that's what blogging is about. New followers are nice, of course, but my blog is my blog. I write what I want here, wear what I want here and I'm thrilled that other people enjoy it! I want people to not think of blogging as a competition. I, for one, would've been miserable blogging back when my blog had 20 followers if I was doing it just to have followers.
For me it was all about community, and I hope that's what people keep in mind is important. I never had a community of people interested in style and blogging opened that up for me in such an amazing way.
who doesn't love modcloth.(not a question.)
Love, love, love you. Seriously. I am so glad you have opened a discussion on this, and I am further impressed that all commenters have been so respectful no matter their personal opinions.
I agree, c/o items have never bothered me, even when I was just a blog reader (and not a blogger), and a new blogger without any c/o items.
One large component for me is integrity. When you read a blog, and they sometimes feature c/o items, could you pick those items out if they were not itemized? For example, I would not accept a c/o coach purse. (Not that one has been offered to me haha). But it just simply does not reflect my personal style. To accept such an item (no matter who/what company it is from) would compromise the integrity of my blog.
To touch on what Rebecca said about change...I agree as well. My style is continuously changing. My blog is a reflection of my personal style from day-to-day. Three years ago, I was a poor, poor grad student. My personal style has not changed, but some of my shopping habits have since graduating. Now I can afford to splurge on a pair of shoes, or a dress now and then. I have received some hurtful comments in regards to being able to afford a nice pair of shoes here and there. Crazy!! I wear tons of thrifted and vintage items that by all means balance out a splurge or two. Plus, after going to school forever for a career, and now work 50+ hours a week (outside of blogging), I never feel bad about a splurge (and splurge....meaning I don't do it every week!)! I mean, who am I to judge someone's fashion sense and preferences, and especially financial status! It is crazy that ppl would do that.
Oh well shoot. I rambled again after I told myself that I wouldn't! haha.
I left a comment on Christina's (second skin)blog the other day about ModCloth, and quite frankly I can't believe how some people are reacting to them. ModCLoth is a unique business, and they are just trying to make it. So are other businesses. I think blogging, and the c/o items that are given to these bloggers is just a modern way really just trying to make it. Models and Celebrities do it, why should this be any different?
I also noticed some comments about girls trying to gain followers and becoming "big bloggers" well, I am sure that they are the same people who had a Myspace two years ago and friend requested everyone and their mother's to be the next "myspace celeb". Whatever. Personally, I appreciate the followers that I have. Yes, it is way under a thousand but I love that I actually can respond to those people everyday, and get to know them all. I would rather have readers that like my blog for what it is, then a thousand who just want me to follow them back and write "cute!" on every friggin post of theirs. And for what? So that they can get free stuff from a website? Yeah, that is cool, but also really annoying. Anyways, yes, you have had your blog for a long time, I actually read through a few of your old posts awhile back when I was at work and you are still you. I think that some people are just being dumb and yes, times are tough but how are these companies supposed to make any money if they give out all of their merch? Oh and shouldn't people just be happy about all the giveaways on these blogs? Last time I checked, free stuff was cool. Hell, I still get a kick out of the free cereal that comes in the mail, and it's only a sample! I really don't have a concluding point, so I guess, I will just say that I really do love your blog, honestly, and I love that you brought up a touchy subject, because a good discussion is healthy, and I say congrats on being a great blogger, and also for providing ad space for people who are trying to make a living. ~Sara
I agree so much with Rebecca and Kristin, all of our styles are evolving constantly. I for one have been inspired, since becoming a blogger myself, to try styling things in ways I don't think that I would have thought of before. And it is easy to jump to the conclusion that an influx of c/o items caused a style change, when it might have just been a natural evolution of a person's style.
Only having been a style blogger for four months now I am constantly reminding myself why I blog. I blog for me and if someone else happens to read it and enjoy it, that's wonderful, but I blogged for a good month where practically no one was reading it, and it was no less enjoyable. I've not really spent much time thinking about sponsorships or anything of the like, because if it happens to come up... I'll cross that bridge if I come to it, and I have an entire community of women who have been there before to help me if I ever wanted to make that transition. And that's just it for me... I enjoy it and I value the community that I have become a part of.
Ditto Jenni! :)
Oh boy, I have a lot to say on this issue and I don't know how well I can articulate, but I'll try!
Reiterating what many have said, it has never bothered me to see "C/O" products on someone's blog. It's great for those people that they've been noticed on a larger scale, and for some, that they can actually make their blog into and business and survive off of it. What is so bad about your blog, which is your creative space, being a business? Can something not be simultaneously creative and a business? Artists sell their paintings, but I don't hear anyone critiquing that. I think part of the issue is that this entire phenomenon is new, and we still don't yet know how to react. Also, to those who can survive off their blogs, I say good for you, because opportunities in this economy are crazy limited and it's amazing that a new door has been opened. I must say I'm more bothered by blogs in which the blogger isn't being sponsored, but the clothes they purchase and wear are all from Urban Outfitters or all from Topshop. That I don't see as creative, and you don't need to be sponsored for that to occur. Blogs like Delightfully Tacky and LeProust Vintage do receive "C/O" items, but they mix them with other things, and they aren't wearing the "C/O" everyday.
Also, in reference to comments already made about certain blogs who do receive "C/O" items, I don't feel their creativity has in any way suffered. I love Rebecca and her blog The Clothes Horse. Her photography is incredibly inspiring to me. Who cares that she may be wearing a dress that Modcloth sent her? She's still being herself. I met Rebecca back in February at the Chictopia Summit, and must say despite all the hype of her blog, I found her to be completely genuine and down-to-earth. I cannot comment on What I Wore, cause I do not read that blog. To reiteract what Rebecca said, if you have a problem with her "C/O" wardrobe, stop reading her blog.
Also, if you pay attention to the blogs that receive "C/O" items, many of them also shop at that store as well. So, I'd argue they aren't really departing from their own style. If they are changing their style to get free stuff, then that's another issue about blogging ethics.
I also want to point out that bloggers receiving "C/O" items could give a bad review of the item they receive. I don't believe there are any written contracts out there with bloggers saying they must only praise the company who is sending them things. I say this as someone who just was contacted by a company to be sent some "C/O" items to wear on my blog, although it isn't Modcloth. If it had been a company that I felt did not reflect my blog and my readership, I would have said no to the free goodies.
I do want to say, however, that I have begun to feel some negative "clique"iness in the blogosphere, which is unfortunate. I don't think, however, that it necessarily has anything to do with sponsorships. It's just kind of the way social networks work, isn't it? I'm not sure...you just have to let it roll off your back.
Two last things: I want to echo Merl's comments that companies like Modcloth do make it difficult for small businesses to make it. I have a small Etsy business and would love to do more advertising, but with companies like Modcloth who have bigger pocketbooks than I, it becomes much much more difficult for us to gain exposure.
And, I did think the whole Orbit gum thing I saw on some blogs was weird...
Annie.
I think the big misconception that people have is that everyone does fashion blogging for the same reason. Sure, some people do it as "real girls with real budgets", but others do it for many other reasons. If you are lucky enough to be sponsored by a brand or shop that you love, good for you! Of course, like you said, there is an amount of sensitivity that is necessary when being sponsored.
I don't ever think negatively about a blogger for accepting free items as long as it makes sense with their style and the blog. Yeah I have to admit the orbit gum thing was weird even if the blogger liked the gum anyways. It didn't really seem to fit in with fashion, even though I guess the new graphics were supposed to appeal to creative people.
ANYWAYS, I think as long as the blogger doesn't let c/o items change their style or otherwise looks out-of-place in the blog, it's fine imo. Not that change is always bad-- there can be good change, but also bad change.
The only thing I hope when I start seeing more c/o items show up on my favorite blogs, I just hope in the back of my mind that the respective bloggers don't let it negatively affect their blog. :)
I actually wondered what "courtesy of" meant because it wasn't written next to items by, say, Target and such. I figured out pretty quickly that it was likely something you received for free in hopes you'd put it on your website, but honestly wouldn't you be wearing stuff from there anyway? If you already wear items from Modcloth, does it really matter if some of those items were free? It would be dishonest if you were sent something you actually thought was hideous or if it wasn't part of your regular style and wore it anyway. It would probably be easy to tell if you were suddenly wearing a lot of random things that were not your style though.
In that, I do agree with Caitlin a bit. The average person generally doesn't have money laying around to constantly be buying new and potentially expensive pieces (and let's face it, ModCloth is pricey for the quality of some of the things I have gotten there, so I won't buy from them anymore). One of the things I love most about your blog is that you're down with thrifting (as I am), and include a lot of thrifted stuff in your wardrobe along with new stuff. That has been really inspiring for me as a former tomboy/style challenged person! If your outfits started becoming extremely C/O heavy, I would be concerned simply because you'd start looking like a lookbook and not a fashion blogger who could think for herself. A mix is totally acceptable to me :)
There's something to be said for seeing a "real" girl wearing and styling C/O clothes from the big whigs. A look book and seeing it on a dress form is completely different from seeing a garment on a real (not ps'd to death) person. And it's a small thing but knowing the item is available now is nice. It's not thrifted or vintage or long ago bought. Now, I wear thrifted items sometimes, but is it not somewhat of a relief once in awhile to think, "thank God, it's not one of a kind, I can have that gorgeous dress too!" It's nice. All in all, it's a win win win for the blogger, business and reader IMO.
I'm so glad you brought this up and it was really really beneficial to read all of the comments! I've been thinking about this a lot lately, especially as the blog grows and gets bigger. But I'll just say this. I absolutely love ModCloth. They sponsor me, I do receive c/o items, but I also purchase a lot of clothes from them. I had a reader comment saying they wished I'd change it up from something other than a Modcloth dress, but the dress I was showcasing in that post - I purchased, with my very own money that Brett works really hard to earn! ;) But seriously.. I try really hard to put as much as I can of my own purchases to mix into the c/o items, but I've never ever been offended by girls who have c/o items. Most of the time companies let you PICK out your items, so of course it's going to reflect your personal taste. One time I received a truly hideous item to wear on the blog from a sponsor that I didn't pick out.. and I immediately contacted the sponsor and said that I was sorry, but I couldn't feature it on the blog because it wasn't me. I think bloggers who receive c/o items that aren't their style, that's a different story - but if you got an item c/o, and it's your style, then that's awesome! It saved you a chunk of change! IDK.. maybe I'm biased because I am sponsored. Who knows. People sweat the small things too much, I think!
It personally doesn't matter to me if a blogger is sponsored or not. If they are, it's usually well deserved and a product of hard work and dedication. To tell you the truth, I don't look at where items came from unless I decide I really want it myself :]
I think the only problem I can see coming from the whole "courtesy of" thing is that I've noticed some bloggers will sometimes compose an entire outfit of those items...or always have an item given to them in their posts. For me, blogging is about an average person and how they style clothes on an average person's budget. If I wanted to see someone wear free clothes all the time...wouldn't I just read a magazine?
But like I said, the issue doesn't really bug me and that's the only problem I could see coming from it.
I love blogging so much, and I do it for fun. But, I do have to admit when I see other bloggers and how popular they have become I get a little envious because being recognized for something that you love to do is rewarding in of it self. I don't think the c/o is necessarily a bad thing and I would have to judge is based on a blog to blog basis. I know that lots of bloggers style up their c/o clothing so uniquely that you would hardly recognize it on someone else. The only thing that bothers me is when bloggers write entire posts about the product telling everyone how awesome it is, etc. Over all though, most of my fav bloggers (including you) are not like that. If it were me, I would jump at the chance to recieve free products, after all I am a student!
You've got a great discussion going on here!
C/O never really bugged me until blogs I read started to read more like advertisements and the C/O became more off topic.
Rebbecca's (The Clothes Horse)posts about how gum packaging inspired her outfits seemed extremely insincere and advertisement like. She clearly had been asked to do the posts and they seemed, I don't know, cheap and fake to me. I was kind of insulted as her reader. With ModCloth c/o, they fit into the blogs easily. Fashion bloggers wear and feature clothes. It's not a contrived connection and the posts generally don't read as giant ModCloth ads.
Love your skirt and shoes! So cuuute.
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Also with all due respect to Tieka, (your blog is one of my favorites since last year) I don't think everyone jumping in on this discussion is 'sweating the small stuff'. Obviously a lot of readers are feeling different or uncomfortable with this whole sponsored thing. I think it's important we (from both sides of the fence) can discuss these things. :)
Oh, and with regard to c/o items. They don't bother me. At all. I mean, I agree that if your style is completely changing that's one thing. If you're getting stuff that you would buy if you weren't getting it for free there's nothing wrong with it.
I'm going to go out on a limb here and say that I don't think there are many bloggers who started their blog thinking, "what can I do to get free stuff?" It's a new medium for marketing and the only reason it's a "hot button issue" is because of jealousy.
I think it's great if someone gets sponsored and their c/o items reflect their personal style. If it clashes with the blog's creative integrity or general purpose/goal, then in my opinion the blog is no longer desirable reading material. Personally I like to read blogs that I feel are a) genuine b) creative c) thrifty/work on a budget. I am a starving artist on a VERY strict budget, so this is what appeals to me. If a blogger can manage these things AND feature c/o items, more power to them. I definitely cannot afford anything on Modcloth's website, but I do enjoy seeing their lovely clothes going on wonderful adventures with such amazing ladies!
The skirt is so so gorgeous!
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I think its great of you to bring this up, Im sure there are a butt load of bloggers out there who want to be sponsered and all that jazz. Personally, I blog for myself and didnt even know blogs got sponsered till about 2 months ago! I supose my question is where do you even get traffic from? haha. Im small and only just started and I want my first comment for the joy and squeeing and giggles that it will bring.
Anyhoo, I certainly hope your not getting too much crap from this post, opinions are like noses after all. It cant all be nice.
Cherio.
This discussion seems really long and I won't put in my opinion, but seriously, can you guys just be nice and not trash people like Rebecca and Jessica. If you go in their archives, they dress the same, and don't shop at different places then they do now. And to the person who said that about her gum post, haven't you ever been inspired? And if someone who didn't have sponsors had written that post, I bet you wouldn't have said what you just did.
I really like that you brought this up as it has been on my mind quite a bit lately, especially because I have just entered the sponsorship ad realm - not as a blogger, as a small business owner. I have been following companies like Modcloth for some time, because they have cute stuff and because they are a prime example of success. Even though they are essentially my competitor, I can't be annoyed by the fact that they have made such a great presence in a difficult and ever-changing market. That isn't easy to do and they didn't get to where they are without putting in a ton of time and work. This may not be the best thing for me to comment on given that I am speaking directly to potential customers and other small shop owners, but oh well, I'd still like to chime in.
Embarking on any sort of creative endeavor, from business to blog, is hard work and most often unpredictable. And as many have previously mentioned, people and the way things work in the world do change! Isn't that what it's all about? There are so many great blogs out there - from thrifty fashion to designer fashion to nothing to do with fashion. But to reiterate what a couple of people have already said, everyone has a choice. That's what's so f*%#ing great! And everyone has different reasons for why they do what they do as well! This is such a great realm in which this sort of discussion can be had - and it isn't simply because of the blog format, it is because of Miss Delightfully Tacky's wish to bring it up on her blog and everyone here who has chosen to voice an opinion. This discussion might not be going on over at zillion-dollar-ad blog or something - but then again, I'm not following that one so how can I know for sure :)
You bloggers who let us into your lives and share your daily adventures are quite awesome - it's not easy to be that vulnerable to potential criticism. I have a respect for that. And as someone who used to work in a clothing store and get sweet discounts because of it, I see nothing wrong with earning an income or literally being able to put some clothes on your back for free once in a while - or even twice in a while when you are spending a ton of time styling and sharing clothing finds that inspire and encourage others. And as a reader who just enjoys getting ideas from the thrifty creative outfits and re-using of favorite pieces, I think there are plenty of well-sponsored bloggers who maintain that creativity, as this one does for example. If someone I normally followed changed in a way that no longer jived with me and my interests, well there are so many others out there - sponsored and non sponsored- that I can opt to peruse instead.
But to any frustrated or simply curious blogger who may be reading this, just so you know, those of us with stores who try and have business/creative relationships with some of you vs. others - there are reasons for those choices. It isn't always about the numbers, popularity or stats. Sometimes it's as simple as this: "I am a sucker for the 70's and this girl has a freaking El Camino, sweet lime green wallpaper, and is trying to get a freaking WINNEBAGO!!!! And she has a great sense of style and takes pictures in a place that is so the opposite of Texas!!!" A good following doesn't hurt for business sense, of course, but no one's trying to exclude anyone or take over the world here. We're all just trying to feel good and encouraged as we find our place in it.
the end. sorry I wrote so much...it apparently means something to me.
i deleted my comment because i don't think i was particularly eloquent in addressing how i feel. maybe i will do a post about it when i am done with finals and fully coherent, ha.
anyway, i like how you have encouraged this discussion. as someone who has accepted a few sponsored items (and entered sponsored contests on other blogs!), it's really got me thinking.
love the fabric of the skirt, it´s very pretty and it suits you so well :)
I'm wondering if people had to put "courtesy of my father's wallet" by all their clothes they would be so quick to attack bloggers who are at least being honest about the source and earning the clothes on their back through their work/creative means...
Everyone's posting painfully long comments and all I want to say is that your blog is adorable! :o)
Kisses!
cool outfit!
love your hair!:)
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I follow a lot of people who have been sponsored by modcloth and although I'm jealous no one is sending me free clothes (maybe I should start a blog first) I've watched these people grow as bloggers and really think they deserve it. You update your blog almost everyday which shows your dedication. You style has evolved but I've never questioned any of your styling as it's still very you.
By the way, love the print on your skirt!
Wow, I read all the comments as I sit out here in the sun. People are really up in arms about this. I have no thoughts on this, if I don't like the persons clothes then I will not follow them, I also have less than 15 followers on my blog and don't care. I buy shoes I do not even put on my blog, I am obessed either way, regardless if I share it or not. No I do have to say, I love seeing MOST people being polite with their comments, I feel as someone who only shows her feet and shoe love...people who put themselves, their style, their budget out there. High Five..if after a time period, a company comes along and wants to gain from their popularity and give them a freebie. Go with it. Um, so not much of an opinion but I guess I did have a small one after all. BTW I was talking with my mom and sister...how crazy is the hot weather Alaska had this week? I love it.=)
the color of your outfit and your pictures are as nice as the colour of your hair *__* what a nice blog!
Anyway.. I think it is clear when a blogger is not following her own style and her outfit is "forced".. I find it sad and my interest in her outfit doesn't last long.
You mix prints so artfully! It's truly inspiring...and that last picture is perfection. Such a great snapshot of summer!
This was such an interesting post and it was really good to hear each side of the debate. I think that bloggers who aren't sponsored (like myself) might have a problem with courtesy items for many of the reasons other people stated. It does make the blog a bit harder to relate to when everything the blogger wears is new and from Modcloth or another sponsor.
But I think a lot of it is jealousy as well. I, myself, feel a little annoyed when I see bloggers wear tons of courtesy items because I'd love to get things from Modcloth all the time, but I just can't afford that website, so I have to stick to thrift stores.
I now, after reading this, understand the other side of the story. For certain bloggers and sponsors, this is a business and a way to make a living and they need to do what will be beneficial to their business.
I think what people need to understand is that neither side is wrong. Bloggers who are really popular are going to get courtesy items from companies who want to promote and other bloggers are going to be jealous. I know I wouldn't turn down free clothes! And I'm sure bloggers who get courtesy items would be a little jealous if they didn't.
Let's all get along :)
p.s. You look super cute! And I think I have that same cardigan from Target and I pretty much wear it every day, too!
I haven't been here for a while and I am glad I came, because you look amazing! Your hair! I love it!! Great look on you!! I feel like with c/o outfits its up to the blogger. i won't wear anything that isn't something I wouldn't wear normally. I think all blogger's need a policy to share with companies! xo
Wow, what a heavy load this topic has brought on! All I will say is that you were very wise with your words on this topic and I so respect that you spoke out on what everyone was thinking. I think it's great that people are sponsored and feature Modcloth's clothes, but crossing the line can be a bit much. However, I don't agree with attacking particular people's blogs. Rebecca's blog is probably my favorite one out there. She maintains her fervor and passion for photography and fashion and even if she is sent clothes from companies, she completely makes it her own & of course her style has evolved, yet she maintains the creativity she always has had. However, once a blog becomes a walking billboard, I lose interest. Blogs that started out as a "girl on a budget in the real world" wind up featuring only free clothes. This is why I love how YOU incorporate thrifted items all the time with your c/o items. Honestly, when I look at one of your items, I can't tell what's c/o and what you found on your own.. & that says a lot! I truly appreciate your honesty & dignity in the blogging world. Nice to know there are still "big time" bloggers like you!
Next time you do such a thought provoking post can you do it on any day besides Friday? I spent last night thinking instead of drinking...
What a topic... I think a lot of backlash has to do with jealousy... if everyone was offered a dress we probably wouldn't feel this instant reaction of 'why her?'. My biggest issue with Modcloth has to do with the fact that it is so damn prevalent (which I guess is exactly the point) and I think a lot of their clothes could easily be found at thrift stores. Maybe because I am a cheap kid with very stocked thrift stores at my disposal but I often look at their stuff and feel like I could find it for $6 secondhand...
I really do not have a problem with c/o, as long as it works seamlessly into the blog. A lot of bloggers have a distinct writing voice which gets lost and starts to read like a cut and paste when a featured item comes up. Any clothing should also fit into their style, which I understands, will evolve. Haha... I don't know why I write 'should' as if I am some blog dictator. Because at the end of the day, a blogger can do what they will and it's up to the readers to follow.
I just hope that all these peeps staring blogs don't start them to become 'superstars' (I use that term very loosely) and get free stuff. Blog because you love it and you want to share. If you think you'll get so much free stuff that it'll work out as good compensation for all the hours spent blogging, you are sorely mistaken. Ok, some girls make a great living off it but that is a tiny percent. Get a part time job at Subway and spend the money on clothes instead... and get free sandwiches?
I already left a comment, but I was thinking about this again. People are going to be jealous and criticize the people who are sponsored. That's just how people work. Think of the music industry. There are small underground bands that people love, and everything is hunky dory when they are playing at small venues. Once they get that big record deal though, people start calling them "sell-outs". But Rebecca is right. Some people start blogs (or form a band) for different reasons. Some girls start it to document their life, some start it not minding if they get sponsors, and some start it to showcase their business (like me!). We really shouldn't force our ideals of what a blog should be, because that's why blogging is so amazing: WE get to choose what WE want on our blog.
And she's right...if it annoys someone so much, don't read. :]
To be honest, the only thing I ever think when i see a c/o item is 'damn, I'm jealous, why can't I get free stuff?!' and specially with modcloth, because their shipping is so expensive to england, I can't really afford it. But it's not like they're suddenly wearing all designed clothes, it's something they would wear if they weren't given it free anyway (most of the time).
But yeah, I'm just jealous of the freebies! No-one here would say no if modcloth offered to sponsor them hahah.
first time commenter, and fairly new reader! first off, if you started doing c/o packages including that skirt, the world would be a better place ahaa ;)
great point about the Modcloth stuff and bloggers getting free stuff.
The promotion that has been bugging me recently is the Orbit gum stuff. Other blogs have benefited from this promotion and tbh, havnt really been honest about why the gum is appearing on their blog, and its really out of place from their usual style [and of course its great to experiment, but when its obviously promo, you might as well come out and say it!]a lot of comments have mentioned The Clothes Horse, which is one my favourite blogs, mainly to do with Rebecca's use of colour in her outfits, they are always so fun!
Rebecca is always so obviously grateful for all that she receives and her readership, and she used the gum as inspiration to create outfits in a very natural way, and was completely honest about why it was appearing, and it worked with her fun style, taking inspiration from unusual mixes of colour.
as has already been mentioned,
basically, im very jealous that successful bloggers get free stuff, and people like Rebecca definately deserve it!
It's ridiculous people are upset about all these sponsorships! I look at it how it is, the c/o bloggers have worked hard, and have earned everything they have gotten for free from companies. Who cares how much something costs on someone else's blog, or where it came from? As long as that blogger is doing what they want to on their own blog it shouldn't bother other people.
I think jealousy is a big part of this but I think it's unfounded jealousy. It's rare that a blog is wildly successful at its inception for several reasons. Unless you are a photographer by hobby or profession, most likely when you start out it will take a while to figure out angles and lighting, and maybe even quite some time to get a good camera. I say this because photo quality, I think, is the overriding factor in determining how many people want to view your blog.
Then there is the issue of exposure, and how to get it, which I think goes hand in hand with photo quality. If you're being featured on weardrobe or chictopia or a similar site, then of course more people will follow the trail to your blog. But that feature probably didn't happen over night.
I could go on with several points, but I don't want to make this into a novel.
To end, I think those who are sponsored, for the most part, make good decisions when accepting said sponsorships, and they put hard work into their blog and deserve recognition. If someone else's goal is to be as successful as you, for example, they certainly can be but need to be patient and take the correct steps.
Oh man, never in a million years did I dream I'd be sitting here for an hour reading the comments from this post! It's obvious that it's something that needed to be discussed.
I don't think I'm gonna add anything new to the topic, but I suppose I could just jot down some of my opinions since I did make a slightly negative comment on twitter the other day and since I'm sitting in a C/O Shop Dixi dress right now.
I think sponsorships are great. Sure they will spark some jealousy from the people who aren't getting sponsorships, but that just has to be ignored. You worked your ass off to get your blog where it's at, and if a sponsor wants to pay you for an ad you have to take it (if you like the company of course). I think it's fair to say that anyone who was offered money to support a company they liked would without a doubt take it. I do think that jealousy is a big issue here, and I can also admit that I have felt a bit of jealousy over the topic. I think Modcloth is a great company and absolutely genius with their marketing. They've taken over the online world in only a few short years! I've accepted free stuff from them before and loved every item that I got. My only itty bitty issue with it all is that some bloggers wear C/O items every single day. That's great if you have that many C/O items, but as a reader I would love to see at least a couple outfits every now and then that contain 0 C/O items. I want to see what people dress like with there own budgets. It's gotten to the point where at least 5 of my favorite bloggers are all wearing C/O MC items every single day, and that's not what I care to see. But, that being said, I don't have to read their blogs. I've actually stopped reading a few blogs due to their excessive C/O items.
As iffy as I am on the issue I say:
1. If I were offered free items all the time I'd take them.
2. I don't have to continue reading blogs that feature items too often.
3. What happened to this community? Last year when I started blogging I didn't notice ANY of this catty, jealous vibe I'm getting now. Was my blog just too small for me to notice or have things really changed?
I've gotten to the point where I don't care about numbers. I could care less how many comments I get or what my google analytics has to say. If a sponsor wants to buy an ad and send me a free dress, great! If not, I'm still going to be there posting what I love.
I do love that your not afraid to tackle these controversial topics though. It's nice to see what a lot of bloggers have to say about it.
It's definitely an interesting debate, good to see some unique opinions!!
I think the only major concern is if a blogger receives something for free that isnt her style and then feels she has to wear it/showcase it because she got it for free.
Other than that - I dont read blogs and then ever go and buy what they were wearing. I just get some ideas for what kinda things to wear together or that sorta stuff.
You always seem to be true to yourself, so dont worry!
Hi Elizabeth. I just saw this post and wanted to clarify something since I think I have unwittingly contributed in some weird way to this conversation (or perpetuated something uncomfortable or whatever) I did a post last weekend about my personal hang-ups with money and obligation and how that relates to my blog and sponsorship. I in no way pointed fingers at anyone and made it clear that I judge no one. I was surprised by some of the comments I received on a post the previous day (featuring my first ModCloth purchase, which I praised by the way.) And just felt I needed to state my personal feelings. I hope that my statement has not created or contributed to a negativity bubble. I just sort of do my own thing over on my blog. I wasn't going to say anything further about it (perpetuating the issue), but I wanted to be clear that I had no intention of even stirring things up. I am non-confrontational, loath passive aggression, and dislike drama. I don't care what people do on their own blogs and enjoy them for what they are. I respect each blogs individuality and hope for the same respect. Plus you are adorable and sweet and very stylish, so please accept this as my offering of Peace.
I am going to weigh in on this a little late but still.
I never had a problem with C/O items until they became the subject of every post and every item in every outfit was C/O. I agree with what many before me have said. What I love or loved about so many girls styles was that they had completely original styles, and many of their items were thrifted, one of a kind items. I personally feel that ModCloth is diluting the originality that was what I loved about many bloggers styles. I remember a time when many bloggers scoffed at those who wore Amercrombie and Holister, but to me Mod Cloth is the new version of these. Everyone in the blogosphere has the same clothes and it is beginning to lack originality. I love seeing how many bloggers remixed their own wardrobes, and that seems to be lacking lately. All that being said, an item here or there, is something that I feel is fine, these girls who receive these items do work hard on their blogs.
I have a blog, a poorly updated one, I'm not going to lie. I feel less motivated to update it because I have felt the exclusive club feel that you talk of. So many bloggers know each other personally, which is great! But I personally feel that it has put up barriers between those bloggers and those who have not met. Before the blogosphere felt like a safe place to go and share your thought, now, it seems to be cliquey which is not something I enjoy and have tried to break free of in real life. I blog when I feel the need, and no longer judge my posts by the comments I receive because frankly it became too tiring. I have stopped commenting on other blogs as well for the most part and have become a bit of a lurker, only commenting when I feel the need.
This has become more about me and less about the issue, so I am going to try and steer my thoughts back on track.
In terms of the jealousy issue. I think that it is very real, and it is creating a competitive atmosphere among bloggers. I know that many bloggers do give aways which benefits the readers rather then the blogger. I think that give aways are positive ways to show sponsorship. That being said, I do not know much about what goes on behind the scenes of give aways.
Anyways ALL that being said. I love your blog! I think that you have found a great balance and have stayed true to yourself and your blog in the process. Your blog is a daily read, and one which I enjoy. I love your sense of style and I will continue to frequent your blog
I really dig the last picture. Cool perspective.
so I'm a little late chiming in on this, but I think I will anyway...
while I understand that a lot of the resentment towards sponsorships is due to jealousy, I think it does also create a sort of clique-ish atmosphere to blogging.
I'm sure it's not on purpose, but the girls who seem to have the most followers and sponsorships tend to be like "the cool kids" who are all best friends and have all the coolest stuff. sure, jealousy can be a factor, but it's also a feeling of being left out. some girls(or guys!) put a lot of effort into their blogs and never get noticed. (I am of course not referring to myself because I've been a slacker lately haha).
it's just easy to say you're in it for fun and friendship when you have close blogger friends and 1000 followers! that's all.
but of course, if I was offered, I'd take free stuff too! I guess it's just a matter of being tactful. which you are. :o)
Really dug this post. So much so, that you inspired me to write this one!
Pretty Shiny Sparkly: The Business Of Fashion Blogging
Thanks Elizabeth!
-K
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I looooove that skirt!
As far as courtesy of ethics and that sort of thing I think it's just important to stay true to yourself. I'm pretty sure Modcloth let's you guys pick those items? So that's totally still you and your taste - which is great! I just wouldn't want to see a blogger wearing something that isn't really her taste or style just because she feels obligated to put it on her blog.
good discussion. i'm not a blogger. i'm just one of the little people who enjoy reading blogs, looking at all the cool outfits, the fabulous photography, and being able to ooohh and ahhh about them in the comments sections. i think it's awesome that some of my fave bloggers have gotten sponsored or get free gifts. good for them! with that said, i really identify most with the beautiful thrifted and affordably priced items most of all. i would prefer not to see an outfit that's all c/o, but i like the mix of c/o and genuine blogger finds, and i think most bloggers do a great job of this, but when all is said and done, it's really up to the blogger to wear what she wants, regardless of how the rest of us feel.
what i like most about your blog is that you incorporate your own quirky spin on EVERYTHING you feature...even if it is a c/o item. now, i may not be able to get away with what you wear, but i love that you have the courage to wear it and make it your own. as long as my fav bloggers do the same, then i will keep reading.
i must say that i am pretty excited for you and the big Winne trip and i'm almost looking forward to reading about that more than your outfits!!
Not anything to do with sponsordhip - I am fine with whatever anyone does with their blog, in regard to sponsorship items, that is the blogger's business. If you do not like what is posted, you do not have to read the blog.
I have a small blog that I write for fun.
What bothers me is Modcloth. and I may be they only one here that feels this way. Oh, I have tried to like them (hey their clothes are so inexpensive!) but so is the quality -cheapy. Every item I have ever bought from them I end up returning. (except for one Panda pan I bought as a gift for my little sister)They do have some okay labels like Dear Creatures and JC, but thats about it. I guess I wish bloggers that received items from them would report on the quality. In the meantime, I'll keep shopping Le Train Bleu, vintage, and small designers.
It doesn't bother me at all. In fact I like seeing real people wearing items that are for sale in shops online, it gives you ideas about how you might wear an item and also what the fit is like.
Love your blog btw! Only found it today :) Corinne x
This is going to sound kind of odd BUT the personal fashion blogs I follow are essential my "girl crushes" We all know what those are... the cool girl that you meet in real life or on the blog world that you just kinda want to emmulate. They have something that you wish you had... whether it be awesome style, hair, or just a fun attitude. Sounds silly but we're girls, it's what we do! Blogs are a great way to get ideas from these kick-ass chicas who seem to do a lot of things right. Now to my point... When these people change too much or become less personable we can find it hard to relate. A few people talked about a particular blog that has become "too sponsored" and I think it just makes us sad, that's all. A little jealous too of course (who doesn't want free clothes?)but more importantly We liked this person's attitude and their style choices but now it's a different blog and tone. Maybe it's important to address the "new blog format" instead of pretending it's only a personal reflection of yourself and interests. It's now also a collaboration with different companies to style pieces. Nothing wrong with that! Just be real about what it is and we'll stick with you. I'm still debating whether or not to remove that person from my blog roll because it's just no fun to read anymore but she was my first blog. So to wrap up, we're happy for your success...but don't let that success bring down your blog. Long post... so end rant. P.S. I don't even notice your sponsored outfit pieces because you put so much fun personal touches into your outfits and posts. Keep it up, you are no doubt still a girl crush haha.
i really love your awesome big red hair!
I like the pattern of that skirt.
Hi so I know I'm a little late to this discussion, but I just wanted to add a brief point that I don't think has really been covered. I don't have a problem at all with bloggers being sponsored and featuring courtesy items in their posts, I think it's great and I know how hard a lot of bloggers work. But honestly it just gets annoying after a while to realize that a lot of the adorable outfits featured on some blogs were all received for free because of sponsorship. It detracts a little bit from the creativity and down-to-earth feel that a lot of fashion blogs started out with.
Basically, I don't think it's really that big of an issue. It just gets pretty annoying. Although I think that you do a great job with Delightfully Tacky in striking a balance, so kudos!
This truly is a thought provoking topic! It's a rainy/, muggy day in Chicago today, so, yes, I've just spent the last 30 mins skimming through the comments on this post.
My thoughts....
Let's start with WHO CARES?!
Seriously.
Why is this even an issue? Does it truly matter?
The topic at hand of c/o items is just the new and latest trend on the blogosphere.
There will always be 'haters'. I think at one point 3 or 4 years ago (long before many of these bloggers even created a footprint in the blogosphere) there were grumblings about bloggers getting personal invites to Fashion Week shows in NYC/London/Paris/etc. It'll be something else tomorrow. If it's not one thing, it's another.
I suppose, the bottom line is after all the layers of 'catty'-ness are removed, you will find the stems of jealousy as well as, perhaps, disappointment. Followers started following for a certain reason or draw that particular blog had for him/her personally. This follower could have created his/her own blog mirroring the blog they were inspired by. Then the inspiring blog's direction changed, and the followers are left hanging/unsatisfied/lost/disappointed. People change. Goals change. Motivational factors change. I don't take things from anyone who's offered me a freebie. That's just me. I can't hold anyone against these things/standards that I hold myself to. That being said, I don't know what or where I will be in one month or one year from now. Who knows. If something causes me to change my mind about taking freebies, that's my decision, yeah? If you followed me only because I don't accept c/o packages, that is YOUR perog.
I personally think you, the Delightful Dozen, WIW, and all the other blogs mentioned and not mentioned here are GREAT in their own way. To each her own. I agree with Tieka, actually...this is the small stuff. You can't make the haters go away. There always be something or someone to who will question your actions and/or intentions.
Dialogue is good. I am ALL about discussions. However, I don't see why anyone would be voicing concern about what others do or don't do on his/her own time, in his/her own blog space.
The girls who do accept 'courtesy of' items should be allowed to do so without worrying about the negative criticism. Your blog is your space to do with as you wish and take it to where you want it to go.
A blog is an extension of the writer's life. Would anyone like being told how to live one's life? Probably not.
Ummm...yeah, sorry. I didn't think I had so much to say on the topic, but individuality and independence and freedom all ring BIG for my eyes.
I think you are adorable and sorry my first comment ever on your site was on a topic like this.
Where the problem comes in is what kind of a blogger you are. Journalists are taught (though they don't always follow) that you should never accept anything more than a hot meal from a source. However, writers responsible for reviews receive free items from companies all the time. If they're more expensive, like a car, they obviously have to give them back, but for an article of clothing it's hardly worth the shipping fee.
I feel that the way to justify receiving free items is to give an honest assessment. If you don't like the clothing you're sent, say so. Give your truthful opinion of the item as a fashion writer. My favorite movie of all time, Almost Famous, has the best credo for a critic. Whether it's fashion, music or anything else, "Be honest and unmerciful."
I have to say that it doesn't turn me off the blogger, we're girls, we love fashion, we're not realistically going to turn down free stuff.
It does make me feel anti-Modcloth however. The first few times Modcloth popped up on blogs I went and checked their website and came to the conclusion that most of it was cheap junk. Obviously, if they told me, "knock yourself out and choose a couple of dresses," I'm sure I'd find a few that I wanted.
But in general, I think they're just another brand charging too much for what looks like terrible quality even in the pictures, and that they are party responsible for some homogenization in the blogging world. It's easy to feature stuff like that when it's free, I personally wouldn't want to spend money on it, but by sponsoring bloggers they make themselves so omnipresent that people do eventually want to buy that stuff. I even found myself looking at their site again after reading this post.
So yes, I suppose I do find it a little cynical because I'm not convinced these are the pieces you guys would pick up vintage shopping or in the mall, because they're bad quality and they're frequently just a little blah.
nice skirt!
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